Thursday, March 2, 2017

Sad Loss

My family had a sad but not unexpected loss yesterday, My granddad passed at the age of 99, just a few weeks shy of his 100th birthday. He had remarkable health, both mental and physical, with the exception of the last several months when his body but not his mind finally began to fail him. I have many fond memories of him and my grandmother whom predeceased him. They were the ideal grandparents. They were fun, warm, affectionate, and loved to take my sister and I on trips. They took us on cross country driving trips, planes, trains and automobiles. They didn't miss birthdays, graduations or any important event. My grandmother was the most amazing cook one could ever meet. I never understood how she stayed skinny her whole life eating all of her fabulous food.

My granddad, as seems to be the habit of my parents and grandparents, led a remarkable life. He was born in 1917. It is hard to comprehend all the changes he saw in the world throughout his 99 years. He was a chemist by education, and spent more than 40 years heading up the water division at a major municipality. He was personally responsible for delivering clean, safe drinking water to millions of people. He never failed them, and in fact his major municipality is well known for their excellent water to this day. He is considered the father of the modern laboratory in his field and awards are named after his pioneering ways. It was incomprehensible to him how the Flint, Michigan water crisis could happen in this day in a first world country.

He always felt it was important to stay with the times. He had a flat screen television long before Jason and I had one - in fact the only one we've had was his hand me down. He used a cell phone, used email, and loved to do google searches. It never failed to make me smile when my inbox would ping with an email from my 90+ year old grandfather.

He believed we all had a responsibility to be good stewards of the environment, especially to our water. He would remind me constantly when I accompanied him to his lab as a kid that the human race was nothing without clean, safe water. He believed in being curious about the world we lived in and had an impressive resume of international travel. He finally ceased international travel when he was 90 and the arthritis in his back made long trips in planes or cars uncomfortable.

However, of everything I remember about him the part that stands out the most was his charitable nature. He loved to lend his expertise, give help, give money and give time. He lived through the Great Depression as a kid and it left his mark on him, and he said the only way a lot of people made it through those times was by sticking together, helping and sharing. As he said to me more than once, "we're all in this life together."

I've been blessed with a truly remarkable family, and I like to think it makes me a better person trying to follow in their impressive footsteps. I'll miss him a lot, and I'm thankful I have so many fond memories with which to remember him.


Miel and Lighty being wild

. . . and the usual, "oh hey, just standing here" picture


Cuff Links

something had Hesse and Bruno's attention

Sebastian and Johnny

Walden and Fabrizzio trotting through the pasture on a rainy day

 Digby, Nemo and Lighty

Paramount, Lighty, Nemo and Happy

Charlotte and Maisie

Calimba and MyLight grooming, Lily grazing

Romeo, Lotus and Donneur

 Donovan, Oskar and Johnny


Baner, Remmy and Bruno


EvenSong said...

You've talked in the past about your remarkable grandfather. So sorry for your loss.

Nancy J said...

Grandparents in today's times are such an important part of a family, their values, strengths, beliefs, and love and support hold up many a younger one in troubled times. What a tribute in your words, I hope the memories will overcome the loss in time.

RiderWriter said...

I'm sorry for your grandad's loss but goodness, you DO have fascinating and illustrious family members! Someday your own grandchildren will recount stories about you and Jason and Paradigm Farms, no doubt. I'm glad you are able to take solace in his remarkable life that made such a huge difference to millions of others. A life well-lived, indeed.

Kris Hurford said...

So very sorry for the loss of your grandfather.

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful tribute to an amazing man! You did him proud, condolences on the loss of a remarkable person. KarenTX

Calm, Forward, Straight said...

What a lovely tribute! Your grandad was extraordinary - the world needs more people like him. Sorry for your loss...

Vivian Vetere said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your grandfather, Melissa. He sounded like an amazing person. Rest assured that you are very lucky to have had him in your life for so long!

RuckusButt said...

I, too, am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing some of his story with us, it is always good to reflect on what we have and why. I've been a pretty avid water-conservationist for a long time, so I certainly appreciate the thoughts you shared on that front. You certainly do have amazing families (both of you!). Much love.